Rules

Last updated: 17 October 2026

Corda Rossa is a space for adults who live or want to discover BDSM, fetish and consensual encounters. These rules apply to profiles, ads, stories, photos, albums, contacts and messages; by signing up you accept them.

Consent and respect

  • Every encounter and every game is based on consent: Safe, Sane and Consensual (SSC) or Risk-Aware Consensual Kink (RACK). Limits and safewords are agreed beforehand, and a “no” always counts, even once play has started.
  • Your role (dominant, submissive, switch) doesn't justify a lack of respect: outside agreed play, no insults, pressure, insisting after a refusal, threats or discrimination, and no sexual messages or photos to anyone who hasn't asked for them.
  • Read the ad carefully before writing: if you don't match what they're looking for, leave it. Silence is an answer too.
  • A couple profile represents two adults, both in agreement with the sign-up and with what you publish: anyone writing as a couple presents themselves as a couple. If the other person withdraws their consent, their data and photos must be removed immediately.
  • Until you know someone well, talk in the site's chat, and don't send money or documents to anyone.
  • When in doubt, use common sense: don't do to others what you wouldn't want done to you.

What is forbidden

  1. Minors. The site is for adults only. Any content involving, depicting or alluding to minors is forbidden, even if invented, drawn, generated with artificial intelligence or presented as role play. The content is removed immediately, the account closed permanently and the case reported to the Polizia Postale (the Italian police unit for online crime).
  2. Paid services, prostitution, exploitation and human trafficking, in any form: money, “tributes”, gifts, top-ups, expense reimbursements, selling photos, videos or chats, links to paid platforms. In the Sugar categories you can describe the relationship you're looking for, but without requests or offers of money, gifts or allowances.
  3. Explicit nudity (visible genitals, sexual acts even if simulated, intimate close-ups) in the profile photo and in albums visible to all members. It's allowed only in private, friends-only or chosen-members albums, which only the people you decide can see. Underwear, fetish clothing and non-explicit partial nudity are allowed everywhere. The rule also applies to drawings and edited or generated images.
  4. Extreme content: bestiality, necrophilia, non-consensual acts (in stories only agreed domination play is allowed, see below), serious injuries, life-threatening practices (such as strangulation and choking), self-harm.
  5. Photos that aren't yours. You may only upload real photos, of yourself or that you hold the rights to: images taken from the internet or other profiles, protected by copyright or created to pass yourself off as someone else are forbidden. Anyone recognisable in them must be an adult and must agree. Sharing intimate images without consent is a crime (art. 612-ter of the Italian Criminal Code).
  6. Sharing other people's conversations and data: chat screenshots, photos received, names, contacts or other personal information of other members, without their explicit consent, even outside the site; and threatening to do so to obtain something.
  7. Contact details in public text (phone, email, social media, links): they're shared only using the site's features, with you choosing who with.
  8. Advertising and commercial activities: the site is for private individuals. No promotion of venues, clubs, nights or parties with an entry fee, dues or membership cards, or of shops, websites or commercial services, unless we have agreed to it in writing.
  9. Forbidden items in the Marketplace, where private individuals sell items only: no medicines, drugs, weapons, worn underwear, photos, videos or chats.
  10. Real violence or non-consensual practices, threats, harassment, insults, discrimination and incitement to hatred; using “Near me” to search for or follow someone who doesn't want to be found.
  11. Fake profiles and multiple accounts: one account per person, no accounts in someone else's name or created to get around a suspension or ban; no bots, automated programs or copying of the site's content.
  12. Off-topic, duplicate or misleading ads: the ad must match the chosen category; posting the same ad several times or in several categories to gain visibility is forbidden.
  13. Scams and spam: requests for money, documents or personal data, suspicious links, mass messages.
  14. False reports or reports made only to harm another member.

Stories

In the Stories section, reserved for members, the text may be explicit, provided that:

  • all characters are adults, with clearly adult ages, and consenting from start to finish;
  • there are no minors, not even implied (school, “little girl”, age play), nor relatives, including in-laws and step-relatives;
  • there is no sexual violence, blackmail, manipulation, unconscious or drunk people, or sex imposed by taking advantage of a position of power (work, school, care, financial dependence);
  • “forced” domination play is clearly agreed beforehand between adults, with limits and a safeword, and can be stopped at any moment: if the agreement isn't clear from the story, it won't be published;
  • no recognisable real people, contact details or requests for money appear.

When you publish a story you remain its author and keep the rights to it: it must be your own, not copied from other sites or books.

Checks

Ads, stories, profile descriptions and photos go through an automated check before publication; doubtful cases are verified by a person (how it works). Private messages aren't checked: if someone writes to you inappropriately, you can report the individual message from the chat (the moderator sees only that message) and block the person.

Reports

Anyone, even without an account, can report content from the Report page or with the button next to the content. Content reported by a member is suspended immediately pending a check. The person who published it receives the reasons and can appeal the decision within 6 months.

Consequences

Depending on the seriousness: removal of the content, suspension or closure of the account. Minors, paid services, human trafficking, sharing intimate images and accounts created to get around a ban lead to permanent closure: it won't be possible to sign up again with the same email address or Google account. Crimes are reported to the authorities, with whom we cooperate.